help!!!!!

[mommy2laylani]

okay, my husband and i have been having problems. he would cheat on me, and one time i did cheat on him to get back at him. but that was at the beginning of our relationship, like the first month. its been 2 years, and we still deal with little high school girls who arent married and who try to get between us. he continues to make friends with these girls, and he doesnt care when they start to do stuff out of line, or say things out of line. he doesnt stop with the one girl until i have physical proof the lines were crossed. and it is not that he always cheats on me. alot of the time, it is what they talk about. that if i had talked about that with another guy, or said, my husband would leave me. well, because of that, and the fact that he is in themilitary, and he is never around, im unhappy. and when he is around, he doesnt help as much with our daughter. im just so tired. im trying to stick it out. i mean, i left him for a lil bit, and moved back with my dad, but i had to testify against him, so he kicked me and my daughter, so i got back with my husband bc i love him. but, i dont know what to do nemore. every time we get in a fight, it makes it harder for me to want to stay with him. like, i get even more unhappy. im trying to wait bc he just got his home stationed, so maybe living together and him being around will change things, but when is enough enough? please give me advice?