I am searching for advice. Here is my story:
I have an 18 year old son that I need to kick out of my house before he continues to destroy my home and steal me blind. I have been struggling with him since he was 2 years old. He was diagnosed with ADHD, BiPolar, and ODD. He has been in several residential treatment facilities to help him to no avail. As he got older he refused to go to counselling sessions or doctors. He has stopped taking all of his medications at this time. He has not finished high school because he won't do the work or go to school.
He destroys my home by throwing kitchen chairs through windows, picked up my living room TV and through it at the window, etc. I have called the police numerous times and they are no help. They will not do anything to him because he did not lay his hands on me. I know that he is doing some drugs, not sure just what they are at this point. He stills my things out of my house to pawn.
I want to kick him out but the mother in me does not want him to be homeless and he will be homeless. He has no friends or family that will take him in. He lived in the woods for 2 weeks when I called the police the last time because he thought he would go to jail. He has stolen my daughters house key because I got his away from him and refuses to give it back. If I have him removed from my home, he will break in the backdoor and come in anyway. He has already done it as well as told me he will do it.
I have spent thousands of dollars and stress trying to help him. I do not know what else to do but put him on the streets. Are there any agencies out there to help him? I've done this for 16 years and I am emotionally tired.