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drugs - ? - flame tip - anyone hear about this?

Posted by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 9:32 PM
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Hi - I am ashamed to admit that I read a letter from my son to his girlfriend.  I didn't do it out of being nosey....just searching for clues to see what he is really up to.  The kid is smart, an amazing writer.  What disturbed me was how he was writing this letter, nothing weird, but lots of reptitions, big print, then small print, declaring his love.  Blah, blah, blah.  Nothing interesting.  Then at the end, he says, "I don't knowwwzzz....I'm on that flame-tip so maybe right now is not the best time for me to be writing this."

What the heck could a flame-tip be?  I'm hunting around on the internet now and am freaking out.

Posted by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 9:32 PM
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quiltermom
by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 10:04 PM
if you find out ? be sure to let us know. I don't know either
madcrazymom
by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 10:06 PM
Pot
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LAjourney
by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 10:13 PM

I just asked him about it, and he said it's a "variation of stoner words" and it means "to be really hyper".   I gave him a bogus story about why I was asking. 

I'm  sick over this but can't put my head in the sand.   If I find out anything more or if anyone knows of anything, please post.   

Tough being a mom.... 

madcrazymom
by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 10:27 PM
Ok ill say it again flame-tip is pot. Smoking weed. Ok? Just asked my 18 year old and his 4 friends they all had the same answer.
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.Holly.
by on Jul. 28, 2010 at 10:32 PM

Madcrazymom is right....that's a phrase used when someone is high on pot.

Sorry you are dealing with this, hopefully he was just pretending to his gf?....I hope you are able to talk with him and get things figured out...hugs!!

ame4c
by ame4c on Jul. 28, 2010 at 11:09 PM

 It could also mean that legal K2, it is slowly being made illegal, but at the moment it is legal in many states and not traceable in drug tests.  Not a nice thing, suppose to give the same high as pot. 

momofne
by Karen on Jul. 28, 2010 at 11:46 PM

Thats a new one...never heard it referred to as that. Hopefully he was just embellishing and trying to "sound cool".

Mommyto3girls36
by on Jul. 29, 2010 at 8:49 AM
Never heard of that either, I am glad I am on this site so that now if I do ever hear this I know what she is doing... Good Luck!!
atlmom2
by Group Mod - Susie on Jul. 29, 2010 at 12:52 PM

I would talk to him about it. 

LAjourney
by on Jul. 29, 2010 at 3:56 PM

Thank you for your responses.  Appreciate it.  I hope he was just trying to sound cool, but I doubt it. 

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