I know I should be upset and i'll probably be a little bashed here but... In my mind, and I have had a lot of experience with drugs, addiction, etc. it's not the worst thing he could do. It was at college in his dorm room with his roommate and a few others. We've always been very open about talking about drugs and other stuff because of some family s ituations we've had in the past. So my kids know about all the bad stuff, and the cautions, etc. But for me my son was always quiet in high school, always different, never really did anything to make me distrust him. And the fact that he told me means a lot to me. So we had another discussion about drugs and I hope he'll just be careful and smart. Other than that, I am not sure what to say except that i guess it's part of the college experience. I know it was for me and most people I know. He doesn't have a car, nor do any of his friends at school. So does anyone feel like me that it's kind of a rite of passage???