One of my eldest daughters (20 y/o) still lives at home due to the costs for her to be at Uni, although she does work and contributes to rent, bills and helping with the younger kids. Her and her boyfriend have been together for about 3 months, he's a lovely lad and his Mother is lovely as well. I've never had an issue with my kids staying at boyfriends/girlifriends houses as long as I know where they are. I see no issue with them sharing a bed. Yet today, I was told that I am setting "poor boundaries", "poor discipline" and "bad examples" by letting this happen. What are your views? I let my kids do this at 15/16.