today my stepson and i went out shopping, on the way back (me being stressed cause i spend more money that i had.) asks me what i would think if him as being a dad?? i didnt think to much of it. (his dad my husband is 3 states away on a business trip) we get home unload the car. bring his girlfriend over and says here read this handing me a card saying we are sorry it was an accident with a ultrasound picture in it. INSANTLY i start crying, he says dont tell my dad we are keeping it a sercet, we can trust you. HOW IN THE WORLD CAN I NOT TELL MY HUSBAND. I AM PREGNANT MYSELF WITH OUR FIRST BABY!!! PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS
Quoting dobrd:stwiford, You don't say how old thy are.. It's up to them to tell his Dad, not you.. If he's old enough to 'make' a baby, then, he's old enough to tell his Dad himself.. They both need to do this together.. It's not yours to own.. This is what needs to be said to your SS.. Take Care, Donna....
Quoting stwiford:Im sorry i havent been up here in a while my stepson is 15
update..... i was in the hospital for 4 weeks i had a misscariage... my stepson gf had a misccarige as well being bipolar and taking zoloft while being pregnant doesnt work.. my family is still upset over both, we are learning to deal with it.. me and my stepsons gf are getting along. and working together. she is living with us temp. her mom passed away 4 months ago... and he father is a pos. so i aloud her to move in and my husband was mad and pissed then said i did the same thing at your age. its okay. we will deal with is as a family. he has quit his job and has a local one now... thanks so much for the support...
need ideas on activities to do together with my teens
Appropriate or Asking for trouble?
- stwiford
on Jan. 29, 2012 at 11:34 PM