My son is 12, but he acts like he is 9 he has a speech problem and some learning disabilities. He is my youngest, my other sons are 18 and 20. My 12y/o is extremely shy. He will not talk to a girl face to face, but give him a cell phone and will text any nasty crap he can think of. I do believe his friends influence him because they are little pervs also. I found out that when they come over they had been looking at porn. I have it blocked now, ( it was a new computer, I forgot about the porn sites). He had a FB book page and I decided to check that out and he was messaging 13 and 14 year old girls telling them they had nice boobs and he wanted to have sex with them. The girls got upset and told him he was weird and they hated him. I deactivated his FB page. Then he has got a crush on his brother's friend's sister and was texting her and calling her every day. She would not answer when he called and she wouldn't text him back. She finally texted him and told him to leave her alone and quit bothering her. I have talked to him until I am blue in the face. I told him girls needed to be treated with respect. I have had his brothers talk to him. I thought we were making progress until I got text and it said who is this and how did you get my number and I knew he was at it again. For him to have learning disabilities he covers his tracks by deleting his outgoing text and inbox. He is uses my cell phone because I'm not giving him one because of all the texts. He gets the numbers from his friend. His friend's older brother is sweet and popular and has every girls phone number and he has to share his phone with his brother. I know his friends text inappropiate crap too because I look a their phones when they are here. I told one kids dad and he thought it was funny. I talked to the other kids parents and they told me their son wouldn't do that. Yes they do I seen their phones. Hell yeah I snoop!
I'm at my wits end... I know he wants a gf, but I told him he has to learn to talk to girls. A girl said hey to him at school the other day and his face turned blood red and he stared at the ground and didn't say anything. Any advice? Oh I have already been yelled at by these girls parents and I always apologize because I understand how they feel.