Yesterday I came home early with my toddler to find my 14 yr old DD getting "changed" in the dining room. When I turned the corner, she was naked from the top up, and when I asked her what she was doing, she said changing. I thought something seemed off, so now I'm suspicious that there is a boy in the house. I'm running through the house looking around, and come back to the dining room to find her unplugging a webcam from her laptop! Now, I'm trying to peice this all together and I totally lose my sh*t on her. She says she was chatting with strangers online on Omegle, but it was innocent. Which still doesn't explain the naked part! I am flipping out, the toddler is crying and the only thing I can do is banish her to her room. She says she was trying on my bra in the dining room, but away from the computer. I'm not sure what to believe, that just doesn't make sense! The only thing that makes sense is that she was chatting with strangers wearing a bra. I'm totally freaked out. She says she's been going on this site for a while and so do all of her friends.
Now, I WORK in social media, so I am completely appalled that she thought this was OK. After all of the talks I've had with her about online safety, never telling strangers your name and location, just surprised that my honors student would be so bored as to pull this stunt. BTW, I threw the video camera away, and had no idea she had it. It is also school vacation week, so I had limited options for my teen. I just today, sent her to her grandmother's house for a night to get her out.
So anyone else have experience with this? Is there some sort of punishment I should be considering? Do I just have yet another serious talk with her? Help!