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When the hell did it become ok for 13 and 14 year old boyfriend and girlfriends spend the night together in the same room in the same bed!?!? WHAT!! Am I the only one who thinks that this is crazy!! There's is NO WAY in HELL I would ever let that happen! OVER MY DEAD BODY!! HAHA! This lil boy last night was really tryna convince me like it's ok and his parents let it happen all the time! Well that's fine your parents are flipping morons! It ain't happening in my house. I mean seriously wat the hell is wrong with people!! Idk bout anyone else but I'm only 28 and I'm NOT tryna be a grandma before I'm 30!!!! It would be curtains for them!! Am I the only one who thinks that this is craziness!?!?

by on May. 2, 2012 at 8:27 AM
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DianeJ40
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:05 PM

That would not be acceptable in my home either.  This is totally crazy.  This makes me think of parents who want to be friends with their kids and liked by their kids instead of being the parent.

rkoloms
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:08 PM
Did you discuss this with the boy's parents?
This is why children shouldn't date young, they feel tremendous pressure to be sexually active, and are not mature enough to handle the pressure
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Tina51003
by on May. 2, 2012 at 12:16 PM

 No sleepover of the opposite sex in this home. Unless maybe your Married. I had a friend in HS that had a long term b/f that had been spending the night with her since middle school. He was abusive. And they were sexually actice from way too young.

02nana07
by Ida on May. 2, 2012 at 12:53 PM

jaw dropI would have like to have my kids even think of something like that they knew better 

fammatthews4
by Trisha on May. 2, 2012 at 1:01 PM
That's not something I would allow
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fantasticfour
by Grumpy on May. 2, 2012 at 1:26 PM
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Yeah I used to joke that it was because he was from KY but my current hubby is from KY too.  Why do I find KY guys attractive?  LOL Apparently the few hundred miles makes a huge difference!

Quoting opal10161973:

Holy craptastic batman!  They sound like a crackhead version of the Clampetts!  Too much inbreeding ladies!  Even the Clampetts had STANDARDS!

Quoting fantasticfour:

You have no idea.  That's not the worst of it.  There are 5 kids and a mom in that family.  mom-two faced horrible woman who isn't happy unless everyone else is miserable.
Oldest brother- the best out of the bunch, lives at home with mom, works full time
Older brother- drug addic/dealer, deadbeat dad who refused to let his girlfriend get an abortion and argued about who had to take the kid until she moved away.  Lives with mother
Older sister- told ya about her.
My ex- can NOT live more than down the hall from his mother or becomes moody and hurtful.  Is IN love with her.  lives with mother
Younger sister- Drug addic/dealer, previously married to drug addic/dealer, lost custody of baby to exhusband drug dealer.  Lives with mother

2 bedroom house by the way.  So freaking glad I never lived with his mother!

Quoting opal10161973:

Yikes!  Did it make you feel like you got out of an asylum when you split?  Bunch of crazies. 

Quoting fantasticfour:

Me too, but it was a single mom and no one was willing to take the kid so they let her off with a warning.  Geez, the family I was married to first!  Welcome to my exhusband's family.

Quoting opal10161973:

That's some crazy shit right there.  I'm thinking they should have taken the Mom to jail on that one, not the guy.

Quoting fantasticfour:

Not acceptable in THIS house, however I knew someone where it was ok.  Her daughter was 14 and had a LIVE IN 23 year old boyfriend.  The girl dropped out of school.  Her boyfriend had some mental disabilities.  He was beaten as a child and a steel plate in his head.  Well the daughter thought she was pregnant and her mother was thrilled and took her to 4 doctors because they were all saying no.  They called cps and the boy went to jail (which he had no idea why because mom was on board) and the mom almost went.







SnookiBoo
by on May. 2, 2012 at 2:27 PM

 No. Not at any age under 25.

bizzeemom2717
by on May. 2, 2012 at 2:32 PM
Never, no way...I would be beyond pissed if some parent let my 14 y/o DD sleep in the same bed as a boy.
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opal10161973
by on May. 2, 2012 at 2:39 PM

I can say the same thing about those Florida Crackers, too.  LOL 

Quoting fantasticfour:

Yeah I used to joke that it was because he was from KY but my current hubby is from KY too.  Why do I find KY guys attractive?  LOL Apparently the few hundred miles makes a huge difference!

Quoting opal10161973:

Holy craptastic batman!  They sound like a crackhead version of the Clampetts!  Too much inbreeding ladies!  Even the Clampetts had STANDARDS!

Quoting fantasticfour:

You have no idea.  That's not the worst of it.  There are 5 kids and a mom in that family.  mom-two faced horrible woman who isn't happy unless everyone else is miserable.
Oldest brother- the best out of the bunch, lives at home with mom, works full time
Older brother- drug addic/dealer, deadbeat dad who refused to let his girlfriend get an abortion and argued about who had to take the kid until she moved away.  Lives with mother
Older sister- told ya about her.
My ex- can NOT live more than down the hall from his mother or becomes moody and hurtful.  Is IN love with her.  lives with mother
Younger sister- Drug addic/dealer, previously married to drug addic/dealer, lost custody of baby to exhusband drug dealer.  Lives with mother

2 bedroom house by the way.  So freaking glad I never lived with his mother!

Quoting opal10161973:

Yikes!  Did it make you feel like you got out of an asylum when you split?  Bunch of crazies. 

Quoting fantasticfour:

Me too, but it was a single mom and no one was willing to take the kid so they let her off with a warning.  Geez, the family I was married to first!  Welcome to my exhusband's family.

Quoting opal10161973:

That's some crazy shit right there.  I'm thinking they should have taken the Mom to jail on that one, not the guy.

Quoting fantasticfour:

Not acceptable in THIS house, however I knew someone where it was ok.  Her daughter was 14 and had a LIVE IN 23 year old boyfriend.  The girl dropped out of school.  Her boyfriend had some mental disabilities.  He was beaten as a child and a steel plate in his head.  Well the daughter thought she was pregnant and her mother was thrilled and took her to 4 doctors because they were all saying no.  They called cps and the boy went to jail (which he had no idea why because mom was on board) and the mom almost went.








fantasticfour
by Grumpy on May. 2, 2012 at 2:54 PM

Hey now I'm from Florida!!!  But I got out.

Quoting opal10161973:

I can say the same thing about those Florida Crackers, too.  LOL 

Quoting fantasticfour:

Yeah I used to joke that it was because he was from KY but my current hubby is from KY too.  Why do I find KY guys attractive?  LOL Apparently the few hundred miles makes a huge difference!

Quoting opal10161973:

Holy craptastic batman!  They sound like a crackhead version of the Clampetts!  Too much inbreeding ladies!  Even the Clampetts had STANDARDS!

Quoting fantasticfour:

You have no idea.  That's not the worst of it.  There are 5 kids and a mom in that family.  mom-two faced horrible woman who isn't happy unless everyone else is miserable.
Oldest brother- the best out of the bunch, lives at home with mom, works full time
Older brother- drug addic/dealer, deadbeat dad who refused to let his girlfriend get an abortion and argued about who had to take the kid until she moved away.  Lives with mother
Older sister- told ya about her.
My ex- can NOT live more than down the hall from his mother or becomes moody and hurtful.  Is IN love with her.  lives with mother
Younger sister- Drug addic/dealer, previously married to drug addic/dealer, lost custody of baby to exhusband drug dealer.  Lives with mother

2 bedroom house by the way.  So freaking glad I never lived with his mother!

Quoting opal10161973:

Yikes!  Did it make you feel like you got out of an asylum when you split?  Bunch of crazies. 

Quoting fantasticfour:

Me too, but it was a single mom and no one was willing to take the kid so they let her off with a warning.  Geez, the family I was married to first!  Welcome to my exhusband's family.

Quoting opal10161973:

That's some crazy shit right there.  I'm thinking they should have taken the Mom to jail on that one, not the guy.

Quoting fantasticfour:

Not acceptable in THIS house, however I knew someone where it was ok.  Her daughter was 14 and had a LIVE IN 23 year old boyfriend.  The girl dropped out of school.  Her boyfriend had some mental disabilities.  He was beaten as a child and a steel plate in his head.  Well the daughter thought she was pregnant and her mother was thrilled and took her to 4 doctors because they were all saying no.  They called cps and the boy went to jail (which he had no idea why because mom was on board) and the mom almost went.









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