Am I overreacting or not ? I think not of course ...LOL
I am thinking of helping...( he doesn't know ) my 15 year old pull back on a friendship .I will really encourage other friends and not take this boy to the beach with us.
I regularly drive 6 boys to LAX games.I have known them all either since K or 5th grade.This one boy is really sliding away from school .This isn't the issue that belongs to his parents ..Every time I drive he cusses often.I am not stupid and know mine can cuss too but not around adults ..None of the other boys cuss in FRONT of me and will call him on it.Three times he has lowered the window and shot the bird at someone ,once again the other guys are calling him on it.I hear them discussing school work and he puts a lot of effort into trying to get them to not let him be the only one not finishing projects.He feels screwed by them ,they should all follow the same bro code according to him.His mom seldom drives because she has a younger daughter to take to scouts ,softball and more.Several other parents have the same thing going on.They normally can make it to the game but the guys have to be on field 75 minutes before the game or they are benched.The difference between him,his parents and the others is they have never said thanks once.All the other boys say thank you and their parents tell me thanks as well..I don't keep tabs except you start to notice when one never does.Plus all the other parents have offered to drive them all when they can, his don't.Yesterday was a Capt.s practice not an official one.It was at school but my son needed to be picked up after practice.I had a late dr appt and my husband was in meetings in a different city all day.Fri my husband calls the boy's dad to ask could he drop our son off at home after the practice ended .The dad said yes.Yesterday he texts my husband around three saying his son told him he didn't want to go to the practice so no picking our son up.My husband shot out an email to the other parents and they all offered to help
Clearly I am still very irritated and angry
.I am done with this friendship ...right or wrong ????