My 15 year old daughter keeps using facebook to meet boys while I am at work to have sex. She has been doing this since the age of 14. It may have been earlier but I found out when she was 14. She acted so sad and told me she would never do it again and I eventually let up on her after a few months of punishment. She is now doing it again.
She has a 3 hour window before I make it home. I have taken away the internet at home, I refuse to give her a cell phone, and I made sure she was involved in after school activites. Now I recently found out, she is using her after school sports to have sex on the school buses and at school. When she doesn't have practice, she steals my phone to set up "dates" with guys whenever, I am in the shower, or in my bed sleeping. Whenver she can get my phone to tell the boys I will be gone from home she uses the oppurtunity. I thought she was on the right track. She was involved in activites and her grades had skyrocketed.
I am finding all this out because she has an older sister and older cousin who are extremely worried just as am. They have found some way to access her facebook account. I don't know how they did it but I am glad they have brought this to my attention again. I don't know how to handle it. She only cares about her image, the latest clothes, and sex. Nothing else matters to her. She uses words on the internet that I would never think to use and she even seems to use the site to bully a few other girls. This is not the child I am raising. She turns into a totally different person when she is away from home.
I've talked to her, I've prayed with her, I've punished her. What is left to do? I try to take her every place I go but sometimes I can't take her. The summer is coming up and I am terrified to even have her in any program because she uses every oppurtunity of freedom to just have more sex. I know leaving her at home is not an option though. I can't trust her at this point anymore to stay home for even a few minutes by hersef. Does anyone have any advice? Most of our family members work as well so I don't have anywhere I can send her where she can be monitored all day.