look i have made my mistake but I went into my daughters room and cleaned up AGAIN 4 bags of trash sunflower seeds, shes 15 I clean her room at least once a month otherwise it would never get done. Than the other day my daughters roommate fell and hurt her hip and this daughter is 17 and has a 4x4x4 pile of clothes in most of the room plus trash never makes her bed so I say ok shes at school I'll take a space bag and clean it up. So I did the entire room and for the last 4 days she has left it in the bag and I asked last night ok please clean it up and she yelled at me and said no and than started throwing her things in the hall so I kept throwing them back in her room and than she almost punched me as she walked out the door. I dont understand how they can be so messy I'm not a messy person and they are. Also my 17 year old turns 18 in 9 days and has made it clear you cant tell me crap after I turn 18, its not like she does anything EVER.