My husbands son had to move in with us. First of all, my husband did not discuss it with me. His son showed up on a school night and told me he was spending the night and never left. He steals (from me and my son),lies about everything, uses/sells drugs, doesn't go to school, spends the night out and doesn't let anyone know where he is, gets smart with me and does not do what I ask him to do, bully's my son and his brothers and tells me he is goon and does what he wants to do. This boy is out of control. His mother wanted to put him away and my husband did not want that. She put him in couseling and he would not go, he was assigned an aide and would not make the schedules appointments. My husband works nights and expected me to help him with his problem teen. After nine months of trying , I gave up. What do you do when you exhausted all of your resources? Needless to say, this has put a strain on our marriage and family.
Am I a bad step mother for wanting him to go back with his mother?
Sadly, his mother does'nt want him back and I'm at my wits end.
I'm venting but would greatly apprieciate and suggestions.