Why can't my 13yr. old son stop looking at Nude Females?!? HELP!!!!

[SamMarcSaiah]

Hello Ladies.

So my heart is broken today. Last night is the third time that I've found my son browsing for pictures of nude females over a period of about two years. We've talked about it. He saw me emotionally break down the first time because he's my oldest of three. My first born. My baby... Well, at least he WAS...

I don't know what to do anymore. I didn't even tell him that I saw it. He knows that I check his phone from time to time. What'swrong with him???? Is this natural??? Is he going to grow up and be some kind of pervert addicted to women and porn??? He's not a bad kid. He's very sweet and he loves me so much. Why does he disrespect me and all females like this????

Ladies... please help mend my broken heart!!!!

[libby261]

13 yo boys like looking at girls, with clothes and without.  Totally normal.  If he's using his phone to look at porn, take his phone away.  If you feel he NEEDS a cell phone, get him one of those no-frills no-contract phones.  

[sherica28]

mama i dont think any of us are ever ready for it. i have 12 year old and i know he is so into the women form, the only thing i can do is make sure i raise him to respect women.. and to treat them right. i also have a 14 in a half year old girl that is curious about mens form.. its part of growing up. was you not curious when you were young.

Quoting SamMarcSaiah:

I know!! Don't rub it in! I'm not ready for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

[PosinourHarmony]

Welcome to the world of a teenage son lol! They are curious they will look hell even adult men look! My fiance is 28 and looks at nude pictures and subscribes to Playboy "For the articles of course"! LOL! Just let him know that REAL women DO NOT look like the ones on the Internet! I never caught my boys but I'm sure they look to! It's only natural ya know

[PurpleHazey]

I think they all do...they grow up fast!

[PurpleHazey]

Quoting libby261:

13 yo boys like looking at girls, with clothes and without.  Totally normal.  If he's using his phone to look at porn, take his phone away.  If you feel he NEEDS a cell phone, get him one of those no-frills no-contract phones.  

I agree

[PurpleHazey]

Quoting PosinourHarmony:

Welcome to the world of a teenage son lol! They are curious they will look hell even adult men look! My fiance is 28 and looks at nude pictures and subscribes to Playboy "For the articles of course"! LOL! Just let him know that REAL women DO NOT look like the ones on the Internet! I never caught my boys but I'm sure they look to! It's only natural ya know

I like this!

[PurpleHazey]

Quoting hopealways4019:

I would be concerned, if he was looking up naked guys, or children. He just curious. Maybe you should just have a talk with him. Make sure he stays more focused on school.

I would have a talk with him, to be honest I think all boys do this "normal"

[Diamondblue1]

He's a teenager his hormones are going every which way except the right way he has feelings inside that he doesn't quite understand he's just a growing boy my son is 17 and we go through the same thimg with him if even more lol don't worry it's a part of him growing up talk to him about it my son use to sneak in me and hubby room and get stuff it's hard raising boys and girls as well but don't give up he will get better god bless you

[21lisa72]

I think I would talk to him about respect for women avd I find porn very disrespectful towards women and I don't want it in my home.

[specialwingz]

I raised twin boys.  It's normal.  And, the more you rant about it, the more he will do it.