Engaged while she has not even meet 1 child & other 2 children twice
Gosh, my x just informed us that he is engaged. He is a very disconnected father. He does takes the boys (13 and 10) every other weekend for visits. My 16 year old daughter has not spent time with him for about 3 years. I have been a single mom raising the 3 kids on my own for the past 8 years. Mr. Military come and goes and give me a hard time on every issue yet he really does not accomplish much in his 10% of the time with the boys and 0% with his daughter. I do it all for the 3 kids yet he constantly tells me I need to seek psychologicalhelp. They do not really see him as a father and are afraid of him. They can not express how they feel and my daughter basically just tries to ignore situations.
Who would get engaged to a person who has not spent time with the kids? She has no idea what kind of father he is since she has only seen the two boys over dinner. I feel sorry for my 3 children. Their father has been off living his own life while he has greatly disappointed them time and time again over the years. What message is he sending? "I am getting married to someone you don't even know and that is alright." I know there is worse out there however I have been trying to raise my children with strong ethics and morals. They attendCathoic schools and are in church each week. GRRRRRR