I have told my daughter she can not have a boyfriend only friends! Am i wrong to tell her she cant have a boyfriend at the age of 13? Her reason for wanting one is because all her friends have one and they will make fun of her if she don't! Well i went threw her cell phone because i seen a change in her! And yup there was texts and pictures of this boy! Inappropriate pictures at that! I took the phone talked to her and his parents BTW he was 11yrs old and i thought all was well until i found a note well not just 1.... 42 to be exact that all this was still going on so again i made attempt to stop it and yet she still wont! what do i do? I'm switching her schools but she still is going to start with another boy! how do i deal with this? am i being to strict? i probably wouldn't even had know about it because i trust her so much if her attitude and with drawing from family lying and grades dropped she was in advance classes and got kicked out because of her grades went so low HELP!