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FB friends or acquaintances??

Posted by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 9:38 PM
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On Facebook, do you friend request people that are merely acquaintances, or who you have known casually?  Or do you only friend request people who you really consider friends (including old friends)?

Posted by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 9:38 PM
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sunflowers12
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 9:49 PM
Just people I no...
mumsy2three
by Shauna on Jun. 29, 2012 at 9:56 PM

They are all people I know. I would consider some of them to be aquaintences now b/c they are people that I went to school with or knew when I lived in another state and we haven't been in touch through the years. Some of them I know well and see on a regular basis. I have a couple of Cafemommers on my fb too, that i've not met irl, just know through CM.  I usually don't send out friend requests.

atlmom2
by Susie on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:01 PM
I do both. Several from hs, maybe 40 or so. Not all friends. Rest are friends from moving so much or family and a couple cafemoms.
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ashleighmama
by Ashleigh on Jun. 29, 2012 at 11:59 PM
Only people I know.
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bizzeemom2717
by Jen on Jun. 30, 2012 at 12:21 AM
The same, but I really only keep up with those I'm closest too...a few of the women I have met on cm are ones I am close to.

Quoting atlmom2:

I do both. Several from hs, maybe 40 or so. Not all friends. Rest are friends from moving so much or family and a couple cafemoms.
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luckysevenwow
by Gold Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 12:32 AM

I rarely friend request anyone, most people invite me. Unless they are family I always feel awkward.

DarlaHood
by Bronze Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 1:03 AM

Me too!  That's why I asked the question.  Cuz I see lots of people I know, but I think, oh, it might be weird to friend them.  What if they don't want to be friends.  But then why wouldn't they??  And I think maybe I take it too seriously because my kids are like, mom, its fb.  What's the big deal?  Just cuz someone friend requests you doesn't mean they want to be your bff.  But truthfully, sometimes I get requests from people and I don't even know who they are.  I know they are legitimate, because they will be friends of several of my friends.  So I kind of know where they know me from, but I seriously have no idea who they are. 

Quoting luckysevenwow:

I rarely friend request anyone, most people invite me. Unless they are family I always feel awkward.


mumsy2three
by Shauna on Jun. 30, 2012 at 9:56 AM

Oh, I forgot family. Most of my "friends" are family b/c we are all over the US. It's been much easier to keep in touch with everyone via fb.

mt0130
by Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 10:41 AM

I only friend people who I know well.

boys2men2soon
by Gold Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 10:53 PM

Only people I know well.   I rarely post on FB.  I have less than 100 friends on my friends list.   I never send requests, but I accept them if I know them.




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