My name is Peggy, My son is PJ. He has dropped out of highschool and wants to get his GED. He flunked every class last year. Mostly because he was suspended so much he missed all the work or he was too lazy to do it. He has no ambition to do anything. He is on probation for driving someones car with no license and wrecked her car and 2 others, so now he can't drive til he is 18. He won't get a job, he won't do anything. He's driving me crazy. I'm going though a divorce and I'm looking for a job also. He's argumentive with me and his 6 yr old brother. They are causing me so much stress. My ex left us in financial ruin. And he's very angry with him. I have him in counseling. Nothing seems to help. What do I do. I had such high hopes for him. He isn't doing drugs, that I know of. He does smoke cigerettes, that I hate!!! He won't clean up after himself unless I yell and scream. Which I hate doing. He causes me anxiety and migraines. His birth father is in Arizona and is no help. My family is no help either. I wish he was old enough to join the military. I need a break and he need to grow up. HELP!!!!!!!