in a nutshell.....my oldest has chosen to confide in her stepdad that her younger sister is apparently having a lot of sex, mostly due to the fact that she had to be put on the pill due to ovarian cysts and now thinks it's ok because she can't get pregnant. Younger sister has been hanging out a lot with older stepsister because she can drive and they are close to the same age. My problem.....I want to have a heart to heart with the youngest but if I do then the older one will know where I got the information and I'm afraid she will stop confiding in anyone. Basically.....I don't want to lose my narc! How do I stop this behavior of my youngest? She knows better than this, I did not raise either one of my girls to act like this!
Thanks for all of your help!