I'm new here and wanted to see if you guys think that this is wrong.
My daughter just graduated from high school, will be 18 in 6 weeks. She has a guy friend that has been talking to her, which I recently met and found out that he is 21. Met..well more like I went to the movies and found out my daughter lied and said she was going with someone else and then walked out with this kid. I was furious and yelled at her, while the whole time the little sneak hid from me. I have tried to tell her that if he was respectful that he would of introduced himself to me but instead hid. I have already told this kid that he has no business with a 17 year old and if he touches my daughter I will call the cops. They have not had sex or are now allowed to even be alone together.
I have not forbid her to see him, I told her I have never said who she can or cannot be friends with, but that I hope she does not screw up her life for a summer fling. She leaves for college in 6 weeks on a full scholarship but I have now found out that this kid transferred and is also planning on the same college as she is attending. We cannot talk to his parents as they are dead. She is very niave and has not had many boyfriends..well only 2 and they were more of a school boyfriends and they hardly ever saw each other out of school. I just hate the idea that she will go away to college and screw up her life because of this boy..who by the way is a total shit, he's mean to people when she is not around, if she gets up to go some wheres he asks her where she is going, he texts her non stop, oh and if she posts something on facebook within seconds he replies. Its getting a little spooky because we know his family was a family of violence. The father use to beat up the mom and well...he killed her and then himself. So yeah I'm a little freaked out by this kid and he is showing us some signs of being controlling, stalkerish.