One step and two steps back and getting no where, my 12 yr old he wants everything and some how he thinks that that makes it so then blames me when he dont get it! He talks back i still use time outs as grounding, taking away things dont work! He and his dad mixes like oil and water, so i try to ref between the two! [ I also have a 17 yr old i m ready to pull what hair i have left out with her ahe blew last yr. She passed one class with a d, blew her chance with a great medical class by not going, not doing the work then coming home and lying she was there, well this is senior yr i hope she realizes what she needs to do and comes up with a plan as to what she wants to do! she has no drivers lic! and pretty much hangs in her home all day i have wemt through it for drugs and all! All she volunteer at a animal shelter once a week then claims she is tired! have cked her medicaly! i just feel like a faliure! any help would be welcome or i am i just digging a bigger whole, i love my kids its just that sometimes i am just lost, thanks for listening!
on Jul. 17, 2012 at 10:27 AM