Was does she lie about ME and MY side of the family...ON A SCHOOL ASSIGNMENT!
And that's just the latest issue! Let me give you all a little background as to what is going on around here lately...it all started last week.
I had a very unexpected visit from CPS last Wednesday and got some very disturbing news. My DD told someone (at that time I did't know who) that my husband (not her dad) 1) pinched her butt in 7th grade 2) touched her breast and 3) twice made her pull down her pants and panties, spanked her bare butt, and made her say thank you. This would be alarming to anyone! Of course I asked her about it when she came home from band camp for the day!
The next day CPS and a police officer came to interview her and her story changed a little. The spanking thing changed from twice to once, the statement went from having to thank him to having to thank him and ask for more.At that point I couldn't help but think she is making this up (she has done this twice before, once to her dad and once to me)
Now to today. She had her first day of school, she was very late for saying she slept through her alarm (I was working one of the very few days I work). She got an assignment to write a biography about herself by answering some predetermined questions. Well, while she was in the shower I went to check to see what she had done so far (not much). She wrote how my entire family is crazy, how I put on a front of being nice and then snap at random people with no notice, how I am crazy, how her stepdad is creapy. What she deleted it also concerning. She claimed that my 5 year old nephews torture my dog (they are terrified of him and we have to keep them separate from Max) and how they are holy terrors and throw things at people. They are 5! She then goes on to put down my neice who is 12 and my sister. She had NOTHING nice to say about the people who support her the most!
Her dad and his ex-fiance had promised her voice lessons, they didn't. A year later I did! Her dad gets upset anytime I take her to see a doctor of any kind (even to get her ADD treated as it was affecting her schooling and sleep), I take her and she fells better, gets treated for health issues that he would just sweep under the rug! I have always encouraged her to do her best at things, her dad always tell her what she is doing wrong.
Ok, this has gotten super long so I will spare you the rest of the tiny details. I am way over my head with all of this and I don't know what to do! I just told her I knew what she had written and she is now grounded from life! She is to call and text no one other than her dad, stepmom, and I (she can't contact her stepdad due to her allegations against him), she will only be allowed to use her laptop for homework, and she is to come home straight from school/band practice. If it doesn't relate to somethign mandatory for school or family she will have to miss out. Her dad says I am being way to harsh, I refuse to let this go unpunished! Am I being to mean with all these huge lies that could cost me, well, quite frankly, HER!