I have wonderful teenagers. They are by no means perfect but they are responsible, conscientious individuals. They will stand up for others being picked on. They are true to themselves and tend not to give in to peer pressure.
My son is a sophomore in college and has chosen not to drink. He doesn't lectures others about drinking and he will still go to parties but he stays true to himself. My daughter (a hs senior) has always stood up for kids being bullied. She continues to support others and to be true to herself. My youngest (8th grade) is quick to reach out to the new kid and tries to not judge others.
Who else has phenomenal kids?