OK, I have two kids of my own and 2 others living with us, all 4 within 2 years of each other. I work 5-6 days a week 12 hour shifts and take care of my parents. I am whipped. I have thought of giving myself a night at a nearby hotel (Jacuzzi suite). No phones, no drama..just me the TV, the Jacuzzi and food, oh, and uninterrupted sleep. Wuold this be bad of me? We really can't afford it but it sounds soooo good!