I am so lost and so hurt and so sad that I don't know what to do with my 19 year old son. He's had motivational issues since middle school. He is working part time and going to a local college part time. I just found out he is failing in both classes, could be involved with drugs, and sexually active. He got his driver's license suspended for accumulating to many traffic tickets. He said he is depressed and suicidal. He has tatoos and pierced ears and he is also an Asian. He has a heart of a gold and a Christian. I would like to meet up with a group locally with moms and their teens to talk and find a way to help. Please help me.