Ok, so we rent half of a house from a nice guy - who happens to have a 14 year old son... the kids are dating, and it is very awkward, because it makes things just too convienient for them to do things... I know - move.. but long story short, my landlord let me move in here becayuse I was engaged to an abusive alcholic and I am not on my feet yet.. so I cant move.
So, I get home from work (work messed up my schedule and I had to work until 7 - home at 8 - the other night... I got home, the door was shut to the boys room... and I knocked and opened it.. well, to see 2 bare butt teens hustle to the other side of the room because they were bottomless. So, I found out they were going to have sex. I spoke to my daughter with out freaking out, believing that that would have been their first time... and told her I understand that kids her age experiment and it is very convienient because they are always around each other.. I requested that they keep their clothes on.. and hands OVER the clothes if they are going to get into " petting"... both kids said ok..
Now today I had my daughter alone and was talking to her more.. I try not to freak out because I want her to talk to me.. I asked if she has already had sex, and she said - once. OMG!!! I told her not to worry about asking me - but if she was ever even thinking about it, I want to take her to get the pill!!
I worry that if the Father finds out, he may throw us out because obviously the kids "living together: is too much temptation. I also want to talk to both the kids and tell them that they are too young.
Apparently, the boys best friend (same age) has sex with his girlfriend a lot.. and the boy wants to be like his friend. My daughter said she didn't feel pressured but I don't think that is what she wants - or is ready for.