I have recently learned that my daugter is having sex and is on birth control. I have brought her up in a christian home and have had all the talks about sex and the issues it causes. The real killer is her best friends mother for her daughters birthday got a room at a hotel, gave them pizza and beer and left them for the night with their boyfriends! This mother is also responsible for my daughter having the birth control. This made me sick to my stomach. What mother in her right mind would do these things. I don't want to confront my daughter. She is having so many issues with school that this would be the topper. How dow we as moms get into their hearts and minds? . How do I deal with this and get her to understand the risks along with the emotional issues that go along with it? She is far to young to understand the complications that go with having sex with boys. I have tried to explain but I have failed. You asked her ag. She just turned 15.