When my son got his first computer it was from his grandma and we didn't put parental controls on, shame on me! Well now I see that he is downloading things he shouldn't have on his computer, like pirated stuff. Not only that, he spends every waking moment, he can, on computer games. We want to give him a new gaming computer, but have seriously thought about the parental controls and decided we need more control. He is 14 and he is livid that we want control, he thinks that his knowledge supercedes ours in this subject! I don't know how to settle this without him thinking that we don't trust him, but we have to take this authority. How to keep him safe and happy is beyond me? Any ideas?