I am FURIOUS! I knew my DD2 had previous engaged in 'extra curricular' activities with her bf, they broke up, she was regretful that it happened. They are currently back together, and when we went to the dr for her annual today, she ran a pregnancy test which tells me they're still at it. :( She has plans for college and possibly the military. Her GPA isn't bad...3.3....she's taking AP classes, has a part time job and is interning with a local police dept. She's not a bad kid. The problem this the other half. NO ONE likes him, our family, her dad has forbidden him to come over here, the entire family doesn't care for him, her friends, no one. His own dad even ships him off to the grandparents 4 days out of the week. He whines and omplains and tries to get people to feel sorry for him. I set phone rules for her, being that she has so much on her plate I restrict phone use until 10pm, then they're supposed to be off. He still calls/txts her past that. He's not allowed in her car, yet she will pick him up for school sometimes. Now I know she is just as responsible for her actions, but I also feel if he gave one iota he wouldn't ewant to do anything that woiuld get her in trouble. The fact she is willing to chance screwing up her future for this loser floors me.
My question is: being that she's not 18 yet (May 2013) I have every desire to keep her from seeing him outside of school (he's a yr behind her). Now I know its her decision who she sleeps with and technically it is, per say, but I feel as a parent I have a duty to try to prevent the chances of it happening. Should I not allow her to go to the grandparents anymore. Apparently that's where its been going on. They're oblivious, or should I say, at this point, do what you want and deal with the consequences, whatever they may be. I am so scared she will get pregnant and screw up her future...WHAT DO I DO!!!!