My dd has been going to a counselor & has refused to open up. She sits there & plays the blame game (blaming us, her parents and/or others) & says mainly everything is fine. She has friends in school, but non out of school (meaning not invited to sleepovers, or just over to their house) & rarely to our house anymore. This has been her own undoing because of past issues of bad behaviour on her part & the parents of these girls at school know what she has done so I feel they don't want their girls around our dd. In counseling the counselor said just let her go with that & don't try to get her to engage with friends outside of school since she says she is ok with her life this way. It's very hard to do. I have found it esp hard around the holidays with her being an only child, esp. She has had bbal practice as the only way of seeing friends. Has anyone seen this kind of way of dealing with this situation working out?