Over the summer she went to vocational school for a week, and she said one of the boys from her class asked her to go on a double date with his older brother and his girlfriend. I don't even know this kid! I don't know his parents and I especially don't like the idea of an older brother being a shaperone! How do I make her understand that this is not going to happen? I know her and she is going to harp on it and drive me crazy. I told her have the boy come here, I don't know him, and frankly I don't trust anyone with my daughter unless I know him and the parents.