She was put in an inpatient program in late November for threatening suicide. My husband removed her after three weeks because they were not dealing with any real issues - they would talk in family sessions about how walking the dog was too overwhelming, for example. She exagerrated the extent of her morning chores for sympathy - all she does is take the dog for a five minute walk. Since returning, her behavior has rapidly gone from bad to worse. She is sexting with multiple boys, chatting with strangers on the internet and givijng personal information, threatening to harm herself, took what she thought were a handful of sleeping pills (they were a harmless supplement), snuck her boyfriend into the house for oral sex, planned to sneak him in again to lose her virginity - it goes on and on. Everything is done with incredible amounts of rage and hostility. We are concerned that she may harm our toddler or infant since she does not view them as anything connected to her. A few incudents have happenned around the babies that we did not witness, but she is the only possible culprit.
At her family sesion this week, she vocalized that she never wants to live her again. To help make that happen, so made up stories of abuse and had us reported to Children & Youth. Obviously, it was determined to be unfounded. Actually, C & Y wants to stay involved because they feel SHE is a risk to our family.
My question is how do we go on after this with her in our house? We have four other children whose lives are being destroyed by her antics. We know the stunts will just get bigger and bigger. How do we deal with this? If she is unwilling to face her past and resolve it, how do we live with this person she has become?