Background: My dd's school called last week. She has 5 F's! She has never had an f in her life. Turns out she has been texting and skypeing friends instead of doing homework. I don't get mad often but I got hot about that. She has lost her phone, iPad, iPod, and tv. She is also grounded. She must bring all grades up to a B before she gets her privileges back. This weekend was important because she had to make up all the homework she missed as well as do a research paper.
DD did very little homework at her dads this weekend even though she had strict instructions to do so.
Exhusband had her from Friday to this morning (Sunday). He didn't stay on her about homework and did not review the work that she was supposedly doing. That really pissed me off!
I have been dealing with this homework and research paper for NINE hours today!! Ex went to his Super Bowl party but I had to miss mine.
Since the school called, I have been helping DD with homework, research paper, and studying for tests. BF and friends are saying I need to leave it to her and stop being so involved. They think I am hurting her and I should let her handle it on her own.
I feel like I am being taken advantage of!
My question: What would you do in this situation??