I'll try to make this short.....our (almost 16 year old daughter) just recently (2 weeks ago) broke up with her first "serious" boyfriend.....it was a kind breakup....they still text and talk. While they were still together, they introduced some of his friends to her friends (he's almost 17)....their friends started dating....now my daughter is being left out of EVERYTHING...yet, when she and FRED (not his real name) were dating, they included their (then single) friends into a lot that they did....it didn't matter to them that their friends were single....NOW that SHE is the single one, apparently it matters.
Her 2 best friends are guys...and they are the only friends she talks to ....no girls. Our daughter is fairly popular, athletic, smart....and has many aquaintances, but apparently not many good girlfriends....I'm SO worried, because to me, she appears to be OK with doing NOTHING....weekends...she's with us....she texts her 2 buddies....but goes no where....does nothinlg.
I've asked her to talk to me and tell me what I can do to help....and she says "Mom, stop worrying...I'm FINE"......but is it NORMAL to just sit around and do nothing at her age? I'm worried.