My best friend has 3 daughters, (12yrs, 13 yrs & 15 yrs) the 15 year old has started abusing her. She has thrown glasses of water at her. Cusses her and calls her names. Pulled her hair.
When it first started she talked to her and the daughter said she was angry because her Mom said she was going to divorce her Dad. (Dad was abusive to Mom) But Mom didnt divorce Dad. The daughter wanted the Dad out. She fought with Dad nearly every weekend. (Dad was truck driver)
Every time the daughter broke up with a boy everyone in the house bore the brunt. She threatened her little sisters. Cussed Mom. Pretty much made life a living hell for everyone.
Mom is having to deal with Dad stalking her. Threatening text messages from him & his girlfriend. She called the cops on night and one came and talked to the daughter. She bragged that her Mom called the cops on her. The cop told her the next time he came he would take her in.
Last week there were tornado warnings in their county and she took her girls to their Uncles for safety. When it was time to go home she woke her and said "We can go home now" and the daughter didnt want to go and started argueing. She told her mom she was "Nothing but a F-ing B***h" and grabed the Moms hair & wouldnt let go. She hit her daughters arm to make her let go but she wouldnt. The Uncle came in & pryed them apart. My friend is 98 lbs. her daughter is 120 lbs. This was the only time she struck lher daughter in defense.
Now DCS took all her kids. WHAT was she suppose to do?! This wasnt the first time the daughter hit her & she hits her sisters. Was her MOM suppose to just take it?
This is so frustrating. Ive raised 4 kids, if one of mine would have hit me or cussed me they would only do it once.
What is she suppose to do?!?