Mom's had the experience of taking their "not really a dead beat" BD to court for Child Support?
I am taking my child father to court for Child Support with Tuition add-on. He believes he is the Baby Father of the year because he pays the tuition LATE (where the school threatens to kick my child out) and with reimbursement from his job. He screams, our child is on his medical insurance and he pays his cell bill and he picks him up on his designated days. We have a almost joint situation but i have him 3.5 days and one extra night and he has him 2.5 days and 3 nights to my 4 nights. I take good care of him as well and a much longer laundry list of things that I do as well as a mother. He feels those three things trumps everything. The court said they dont care about a cell phone.
My son is 14 going on 15. I pay the school too but a lower amount and the BD wants us to go half down the middle but he makes 70-80k a year and I make 20-30. He feels I shouldn't pay a third and I should pay half. Mind you he has full tuition reimbursement from his job and told me if I don't do it he will allow him to get kicked out of school. Well that almost happened but I begged the school to keep him in and I made a payment arrangement for him. So I am sick of this crap and just wnat the money to come directly out of his check because he pays not on time and only when he feels like it.
A mutual friend told me that since he's "not really a dead-beat" I may not have a case.
Anybody out there situations like mine? I would love to hear it.
Thanks in advance