First, a little backstory about what happened... My son has wanted to date this girl for a while, and he asked her out places a couple of times, and she always said she was "busy" He's a kind of shy kid and from what he said about her I thought they'd be a good match. She's apparently quiet, but nice, and really artistic. So Friday he asked hrer on a date (I guess the previous times he had asked her as a "friend") and she said to him that she was just going to be blunt about it, she wasn't interested in a relationship. She said she was "going through some personal stuff and if I was in a relationship I don't think I would be able to have the privacy I need." Now her answer really surprised him, and he didn't know what to say. I advised him to try and move on, but he really doesn't seem willing to. What would you say to him if you were me, do you think he should just give her some space, or should I advise him to talk to her again if he wants to (which he does)?
on Feb. 24, 2013 at 6:49 PM