Ok ladies, thank you so much for your input. Sabrtooth, my son really enjoyed yours especially.
He said he's going to break up with her, so not sure if he's going to follow through or not. He appreciated all the input and so do I. Shows that I'm not the one writing it all with the different personalities. He's a sweet young man but always mixes himself up with the wrong girl, usually one with mental problems or drama queens.
Ok, my step son is 24 years old. He is currently dating a girl, we will call her J and she's 21 years old. Her current situation is desperate. She lives with her mom and has recently mentioned that her relatives are going to be moving in too and she will be displaced. They have been dating approx. 6 weeks.
Now, new development. Maybe not new, but new to me. J has a 5 year old son. Here's the list of happenings.
At 16 J was emancipated from her parents so she could live with her BF, to whom she was engaged to.
At 16, J's BF at the time's mom(soon to be mil) died during childbirth to little brother K.
6 months later, the boy's father died (soon to be fil)
J and her BF lived in the house together, raising the little boy K.
When J was 18, J adopted K (not yet married to his big brother).
Approx. 6 months later, the BF died before they were married.
J was left with no home, no income, etc. K was taken into foster care. This was 2011.
J was speaking to K on the phone and seeing him regularly, until recently, when my son came into the picture.
Apparently with the loss of her apartment and her moving into her mom's house, she must have missed a court date and now foster parents are not permitting her to see or speak to the little boy (5 years old) K.
J is unemployed, has no driver's license and wants my son to get an apartment so she can have hopes of getting her son (deseased boyfriend's little brother) back.
I don't recall if she lives in KY or OH, they are on the line I think.
These are the facts handed to me. My son has asked me for advice and I have given him advice. His entire family has given him advice. I know his intentions. I neither agree or disagree with his intentions.
Give me your take on this. I plan on sending him the link to this page so he can see your responses. You can ask questions and I can answer them to the best of my ability.
ETA: No idea if these are actual facts, just what I'm being told.