I don't mind my son dating, he is 16 and he is pretty responsible. But he is currently dating this girl at his school, Meg, and my problem with her is she seems to be using him. He wont believe anything I say about her, he always defends her but heres some of the stuff she does. She never pays on dates, she claims to be broke but since he wants to see her he'll always pay for whatever movie or resteraunt or whatever she wants to go to. (He has a job so its his own money but he blows so much on her) and she also often says she's too busy to see him. And the few times shes been over the house she really doesn't seem to like him that much, but he's clearly crazy about her. The one thing he has admitted he doesn't like about her is that she never opens up to him, like about stuffthats bothering her. But anyway, I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to him and he refuses to believe she's using him, and I also don't want to force him to dupmp her or anything. I just wish he could see what's going on, and at least stand up for himself when stuff bothers him. Which it does.
on Mar. 20, 2013 at 10:22 PM