I need some advice lately all me and my 16 year old son do is fight. He has always been a little kept to himself and a little moody, but lately it has been so much worse. For about 8 months now he has been dating this girl. I really don't like her she was no stranger we used to be friends with her parents until I realized her mother was no kind of friend she use to put me down takes turns talking about other friends including me with other ones. Anyways I broke off that relationship. She has two kids both whom go to school with my two teens her son said their problems don't concern me and is very respectful, however the daughter goes around telling my son your family don't like me I'm scared to tell your mom hi she hates me. I forgot to mention right before they got together she tried causing problems for my 17 year old daughter and some girls she went to school with by telling them my daughter wanted to fight them and she was talking stuff about them all which was not true so I guess that was the beginning of my dislike for her. So anyways her and my son always post their buisness on twitter they don't know but I can see it. I know she treats my son like total crap and he is on there making himself look like a fool by continuing to just kiss her butt. She is so jealous she is jealous of my sons teacher, she gets jealous if my son hangs out with her brother, she hates my sons best friend (so he has started talking to him less). She fights with him like every other day. Problem is I just trying telling my son he deserves to be treated good and he says she does I don't go to school with them so I don't know I just assume stuff. He makes me look like I'm just crazy making up stuff up but it's coming straight from them. Whenever I say anything he gets pissed and just starts saying its because I dont like her and then says i just don't like her cause I hate her mom. He goes on telling his grandma and uncles that I am just so mean to him and out of my four kids I am the meanest to him and that I hate him. Our recent fight he was so mad saying I just dont like her and threatened to kill himself and also he wanted to leave. I don't know what to do anymore I feel like giving up and just ignoring him, but then I think that would just seem like I do hate him. My husband says that he has been talking to him but I see no changes he just let him go places all day Saturday then let him go to movies with her Saturday night which she was mad and hanging lip saying she just wanted to go home. My son sends my husband text saying thanks for letting me go. And out of no where one day dad I love you have a great day. I feel like he sees my husband as the good guy, while I'm just feeling like the worst mother. My husband says I just need to quit telling my son stuff an I tell him he was the same with our now 17 year old daughter and he just says cause that was different shes a girl. I see it different they are BOTH our kids and I hate to see them hurt. Any advice PLEASE??
on Apr. 1, 2013 at 3:37 PM