3 years ago we adopted a teenager. He is 17. We have all these issues that come up and that I feel like we handle okay, but then more come up.
He was doing horrible in school, so we homeschooled him (at his begging). Now, he's in college classes but won't go! He skips all the time and we paid good money for those classes.
He was smoking pot. He suffers from anxiety and depression, so we understood why he was doing it (even though he has a counselor and medication for the issues). So we didn't give him crap about it and even started looking into a medical marijuana card for him.
The other day I was looking through his twitter messages and came across one where he is asking another friend where the "narcs" are. He says he didn't send the message, a friend sent the message under his name.
He lies all of the time, about everything! I could ask him if he ate a sandwich, and he would tell me no, even if I knew he ate a damn sandwich! And it's not like I would care if he did!
He goes to parties even though I told him I don't want him to. He and his friends smoke in my car. I'm losing it. WTH do I do???