My teen is 15 1/2 years old. She really has lost all interest in extra curricular activities except soccer. I am happy she is still involved with select and school soccer. But I would love to see her be involved with the youth group at church, get back to piano, and art classes as she is super talented. She has no interest. Do you force your kids to do additional activies or do you let them decide? A) its hard to force a teen to do things they dont want to do B) she may resent me forcing her to do things and fight it harder C) she may never want to return to those activities in the future if I force it now. I recognize we should respect our teens opinion as she is 2 1/2 years away from being an adult. Yet I also see she has a laziness factor. Thoughts?