My 14 yo dd has issue with changing pads throughout the day when she has her monthly. She started her period at 12 & she STILL has this issue. Without getting graphic I will just say it's a mess in the hamper. I tell her about it but nothing helps. She won't tell me when she is out of heavier flow pads (this has happened numerous times)... so this month I just let it slide & all she has is light day ones. They don't even have wings on them. I feel kinda bad but I have said & tried everything else (even making her wash her undies out by hand) to get her to be responsible. It's like she just doesn't care. Anyone ever have this problem & what have you done?