I'm a mess and need advice (sorta long) but please help
the thing is, i have a job now and i have to do 100 things around the house or he gets mad, the thermostat cant be above 62 degrees, the curtains cant be messed up, the lights cant be on before 7:30, he expects dinner every night, i do all the cleaning and laundry and everything else but if 1 thing is wrong i get bitched at. i can do 1,000 things for him during the day so he doesn't get mad but he will point out the 1 thing that is wrong. i know i screwed up tonight and he's mad about the $200 ticket, but then he screamed at my daughter and she's bawling that dad told her to get a job to help with the family finances, and that dad says he has nothing and she thinks its because of her. i'm terrified of screwing up because he gets so mad and he's scary. he's never hit me but he'll punch walls and counter tops and he broke the broom in half hitting it on the wall. what do isay or do? is my marriage a mess?