My 14 year old son has made the decision to live with his dad. I ironically thought it might be good for him to experience a little attention for a semester (he is an 8th grader) but now he doesn't want to move back home. His twin brother, sister and 3 year old half sister all live with me and my husband 30 min away. My heart is torn apart but I think forcing him to come home would drive him away even more. Any words of wisdom?