So I think I've lost any respect my boys had for me. All because I enforce the rules we make. Kids these days are on their phones 24/7. Who knows what time they go to bed and then sleep with the phone plugged in on their pillows! They never get shut off.
So we have this rule at 9:30 every bodies phones get turned in to be charged for the morning. Well my husband always goes to bed an forgets to ask for them, which we shouldn't have to ask when they know the rule. Anyways everyone will usually turn them in except my 12 & 16yr old boys. They make me ask over and over. Then they start talking shit to me about how it's such a stupid rule, and they forgot their 7yrs old again. O and if dad asks for them "he's only asking cuz I told him to" that's what they say. But they do give them to him without talking back. Then I'm the bitch cuz I ask for them.
Tonight my 16 yr old kept talking back to me, then had the nerve to say I get out of practice at 4:30. So I told him well tell your dad. He replies with ok he's the only one that loves me anyways. What the hell is a matter with kids these days? Everyone says girls are harder yea right my 17yr old is an angel compared to this disrespectful Lil jerk. What more can I do with this kid? Any suggestions
Update>a nice little update NOT! So last night Mr. Disrespectful is asking me if he can go over his gf's on Saturday, i say no. Then he goes on to tell me "dad said your a grown ass lady and you need to grow up already that your just all about drama & love drama." WOW REALLY!? So not only don't husband have my back he talks shit about me too! I just told my son your dad needs to realize he is your parent & not your friend. As soon as dad got home he ran and told him.
O an the reason turn in time is so early is because my high schoolers have to be on the bus by 6am.