My dd has this ex friend who was no good for her. He was very manipultive and to keep her in check he would threaten how'd hurt himself. He never did anything that I was able to involve the law buti did everything I could to keep him away from her. They kept trying to sneak seing eachother and she kept getting caught. Eventually under total supervision and counseling we got rid of him. From early oct till end of nov we didn't see him at all. Out of the blue he dropped off a birthday present for her but we didn't see him that day he jusr droped it off. We didn't see him again until mid dec when he started taking the same subway as her but they didn't talk. He would show up at the subway oncw in a while. Early feb she started taking the subway wirh anorher friend and we didn't see stalker boy again untill 2 days ago. He dropped off a note that just said he was leaving her life and hel will see her again in another life. The leter was not specific but it had a suicide theme to it. Then he started posting on fb everyrhing he's been feeling and he's very angry. Scary angry. We couldn't see the messages at first because they each have eachother blocked on fb but her friends called to let her know. The wholenthing was just creepy. I probably have seen to many lifetime movies but this kid just doesn't seem right. He's talking about how he gets these really bad headaches when he thinks about her. He wrote some stuff that shows he's been seeing her even tho she hasnt seen him. He didn't cross any lines that I could contact the police with but I'm nervous. ( forgive the typos. My tablet is. A pain in the ass and has a mind of its own )
Update*** I went with my dd to the police yesterday bringing everything i had with me. As I suspected there is nothing they can do because he hasnt done anything. Basically he hasnt had any contact with her in 3 months. He was at the subway again this morning (thank god she's not alone on the subway) Sometime this weekend i'm gonna go and talk to his parents again. I have to bring along someone to translate for me cause they dont speak english or I would of already went. I know they are afraid that the authorities will find out they are not exactly legal so i'm gonna tell them if they don't keep him away i'll have no choice even tho i know the police can't do anything yet.