I would like some advice. DD is a teenager who at one time I would have bet money she was slightly on the aspergers scale. I still think that way but she has really grown a lot socially. Anyway.... here are some issues I am having trouble dealing with:
She lost her phone and iPod due to the excessive texting and social networking sites where her profiles were adjusted to appear older. Constant communication from boys much older. Oh and the underwear pics she would send them too. I did find one pic on her phone that gave me more information about my daughters "grooming" habits than I ever care to know.
Of course I have the typical issues with refusing to do chores, she comes home from school and eats before I get home and then goes to sleep to get out of doing anything....but this is nothing.
She is in my bedroom all of the time. She takes my clothes and stretches them out (she used to do this to my size 5 1/2 shoes when she wore a 7). She will even take and wear my thong panties without a thought. She just doesn't think it is gross at all. (She has her own pretty ones) For awhile I noticed a "package" of stuff I kept on a top shelf of my closet, pushed way to the back, had appeared to be moved. I convinced myself it was my imagination. Well it wasn't and I got a very real eye opener one day when I saw the envelope opened and turned to face out. GOOD GRIEF!!! She had helped herself to my vibrator several times. Fortunately, that one wasn't one I used anymore. Her excuse was one of her friends was talking about one and she wanted to know what it was. Yeah right. She didn't think that was gross either.
WTH am I supposed to do with her? Besides putting a lock on my door how do I get her to respect anything? Oh, and I did throw the vibe away.