it is really not that big a deal.... but Im starting to feel guilty about the graduation party.
Graduation is june 14, the party is june 15th. I guess I was just so excited i over did it. Should have just done a nice family dinner... but she is my oldest, and well you get the idea.
I sent asave the date email around to all the family and told them it was a casual open house and not to feel they had to come but we would love to have them. All the grandparents are coming, two from out of town. Now when I start to think about the cost of this Im feeling bad. If it were anyone else we would offer for them to stay here, but my in laws dont do stairs and my mom and her husband are too large for any of our beds. We have one down stairs room but that would mean that I have to choose who stays at the hotel. So I told them that we would love to have them but can not put them up...... now Im feeling horribly guilty!
AND father's day is the next day. So I feel I should do something about fathers day but then what do I do about siblings? Tell them to get hotel rooms too? (they are a 1.5 hr drive away)
silly non-scence, really not that big a deal, but Im starting to work on logistics, meal plans, ect and Im just starting to see what an issue I have made for every one.
btw.... my mom has issue with my mil, because my mom is self-concious around her. my mom has issue with my step-mom. and last time my step-dad saw my step-mom he was an ASS to her. ugh... what have I done????