Advice Needed: Help, my 13 yr. old daughter wants to go live with her dad?
Type your question for the moms of our Teens group to answer!My 13 year old daughter just told me she wants to go live with her dad and stepmom because she doesn't think we're fair parents, how do I handle this?We try and be fair, yes, she does get punished for serious things, like hitting her sister and being rude. Her attitude lately is that she thinks no one likes her and she's bad. She has a serious ADHD problem and other emotional issues. When we try and talk to her about responsibilities, she gets all mad and says we're not fair. I have spent so much time and energy into trying to help her and get her on the right track, sometimes it's exhausting, but I do the best I can. We also have 2 other children that we try to be fair to. She always complains we're picking favorites. The real problem is, she doesn't want to be involved and they do. then when we have a good time, she gets even more mad or jealous. I love her so much, I don't want her to leave, but I can't force her to stay, her dad and step mom have already discussed this with her, befor I knew and they are all for it. What can I do? Do I let her go? Do I just say No, or do we give it a try. My husband says if she leaves, she has to give it a year before she comes back. I'm so confused. please, any advice will be so grateful.